Love the Skin You're In

“The body is your temple.  Keep it pure and clean for the soul to reside in.”~B.K.S. Iyengar 

 It’s 6:00am. I’ve been awake since 2. My mind, while alert, is racing and my body is vibrating… like I could leave the boundaries of my skin at any moment. I tried meditating, breathing, doing the dishes, reading, asana and still no sleep. This wouldn’t be so much of a problem if I didn’t have to leave in an hour for a full day of teaching.

Love The Skin Youre InI step into the shower and let the hot water relax my muscles. Two bottles of oil – one coconut, one sesame – sit on the shower rails. Because of the pregnancy* I developed a hormonal tendency toward itchy, red, irritated skin so I’ve been using only an oatmeal scrub followed by coconut oil to keep it in check. It’s worked. But today, when I’m this anxious about my energy, when it’s this cold outside, I go for the heavy warmth of the sesame oil. After pinning my wet hair back in a clip I start at the back of my neck. The relief is instant. Moving down my arms I feel my pulse start to settle. When I have finished covering my whole body with oil I no longer feel that I am pulling away from my bones. After the massage, I inhabit them.

The day proceeds well. I feel good about the classes I have taught. I was able to be present for students, family and friends. Having taken the time to nourish myself I am better able to nourish others with attention and generosity.

Abhyanga, or the Ayurvedic practice of oil massage is powerful “medicine.” It can – and should – be done everyday. Whether you’re feeling tired, stressed out and untethered; hot, brash and overworked; congested and sluggish or even if you’re feeling fantastic, treat yourself to abyhanga and discover a potent nourishment that reaches into every part of your body and soul and love the skin you’re in.

Note:  Yes, this is in place of lotion. Most commercial lotion is loaded with chemicals the body cannot metabolize. Use pure, food grade oils. Coconut and Shea butter are also good for added moisture but take care that they aren’t combined with a host of unpronounceable ingredients – the latin names for essential oils not withstanding. 

Benefits of Oil Massage

Oiling Entire Body

“The body of one who performs oil massage regularly, even if they are subjected to strenuous work or physical stress, is not much affected. His physique is strong, soft and charming and the onslaught of aging is slackened.” Charaka Samhita, Volume 1, dated 100 BCE
“The body of one who performs oil massage regularly, even if they are subjected to strenuous work or physical stress, is not much affected. His physique is strong, soft and charming and the onslaught of aging is slackened.”
Charaka Samhita,
Volume 1, dated 100 BCE
  • Nourishes & rejuvenates mind and body
  • Enhances complexion
  • Soothes nervous system
  • Enhances circulation and detoxification
  • Promotes sleep, relieves fatigue
  • Increases longevity, decreases aging
  • Builds stamina
  • Releases stress
  • Awakens senses
  • Recovers muscle fatigue
  • Supports digestion, blood pressure and organ communication
  • Teaches self-love and self-care

Oiling Ears

    • Decreases stiffness in neck
    • Release tension in jaw
    • Improves and protects hearing
    • Soothes Vata – Calms nerves
    • Prevents infection due to dryness

Oiling Feet Before Bed

    • Release tension
    • Stimulates detox
    • Aids in deep sleep and rest
    • Soft, supple, skin and nails

How to Oil Massage

    • Image from the book, "Ayurvedic Beauty Care" by Melanie Sachs
      Image from the book, “Ayurvedic Beauty Care” by Melanie Sachs
      http://www.amazon.com/Ayurvedic-Beauty-Care-Ageless-Techniques/dp/091495511X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1392221537&sr=8-1&keywords=ayurvedic+beauty+care

      Warm the Room

    • Fill a squeeze bottle with oil
    • Warm the oil ~ Fill a glass with hot water, drop in your bottle of oil
    • Work the oil in your body ~ Rub with vigor and love over your entire body, long strokes on the limbs, circular strokes on the joints. Use special attention to the parts you’re not best friends with. (Thighs, butt, chest, ears, whatever)… Even oil your anus, it will help you poop, trust me.
    • If time, let oil sink in for 20 – 30 minutes ~ Wear an old robe or t-shirt you don’t mind ruining
    • Rinse or Towel Off
    • Enjoy your luscious skin and nourished body

Types of Oil

    • Organic Untoasted Sesame or Almond ~ for Dry, Light, Spacey Types or Cold Weather
    • Sunflower or Coconut Oil ~ for Hot, Firey, Sensitive Types or Warm Weather
    • Olive, Apricot or Sesame Oil ~ for Solid, Watery, Congested Types – or Dry Brush (massage without oil) – working from limbs toward center

Easy Tips to Begin

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Start Small

  • Start with rubbing oil on feet before bed, cover with cotton socks
  • Rub oil in ears
  • Put a drop or so on your pinky finger, rub it in and around your ears

Full Body

    • Twice a week rub oil all over your body
    • Can be done before, during or after a shower
    • Work up to every day, or nearly every day
    • At least once a week set aside time to rub oil in before or after shower and give at least 20 minutes to absorb into your skin before rinsing or toweling off excess

* Some literature advises against abyhanga during pregnancy. I have yet to discover why. In my opinion, the thing to do is be gentle. It’s unlikely that you’ll push hard enough on certain points that could trigger labor, but better to be safe. So if you’re pregnant, please check with your care provider and exercise caution when performing abyhanga.  I cannot be held liable for any adverse effects of practicing abhyanga. Also, regular practice of abhyanga with sesame oil in the two to six weeks following birthing is said to be one of the best things a new mother can do to heal and regain her vitality. I’ll let you know how it goes!

Love the Skin You’re In

“The body is your temple.  Keep it pure and clean for the soul to reside in.”~B.K.S. Iyengar 

 It’s 6:00am. I’ve been awake since 2. My mind, while alert, is racing and my body is vibrating… like I could leave the boundaries of my skin at any moment. I tried meditating, breathing, doing the dishes, reading, asana and still no sleep. This wouldn’t be so much of a problem if I didn’t have to leave in an hour for a full day of teaching.

Love The Skin Youre InI step into the shower and let the hot water relax my muscles. Two bottles of oil – one coconut, one sesame – sit on the shower rails. Because of the pregnancy* I developed a hormonal tendency toward itchy, red, irritated skin so I’ve been using only an oatmeal scrub followed by coconut oil to keep it in check. It’s worked. But today, when I’m this anxious about my energy, when it’s this cold outside, I go for the heavy warmth of the sesame oil. After pinning my wet hair back in a clip I start at the back of my neck. The relief is instant. Moving down my arms I feel my pulse start to settle. When I have finished covering my whole body with oil I no longer feel that I am pulling away from my bones. After the massage, I inhabit them.

The day proceeds well. I feel good about the classes I have taught. I was able to be present for students, family and friends. Having taken the time to nourish myself I am better able to nourish others with attention and generosity.

Abhyanga, or the Ayurvedic practice of oil massage is powerful “medicine.” It can – and should – be done everyday. Whether you’re feeling tired, stressed out and untethered; hot, brash and overworked; congested and sluggish or even if you’re feeling fantastic, treat yourself to abyhanga and discover a potent nourishment that reaches into every part of your body and soul and love the skin you’re in.

Note:  Yes, this is in place of lotion. Most commercial lotion is loaded with chemicals the body cannot metabolize. Use pure, food grade oils. Coconut and Shea butter are also good for added moisture but take care that they aren’t combined with a host of unpronounceable ingredients – the latin names for essential oils not withstanding. 

Benefits of Oil Massage

Oiling Entire Body

“The body of one who performs oil massage regularly, even if they are subjected to strenuous work or physical stress, is not much affected. His physique is strong, soft and charming and the onslaught of aging is slackened.” Charaka Samhita, Volume 1, dated 100 BCE
“The body of one who performs oil massage regularly, even if they are subjected to strenuous work or physical stress, is not much affected. His physique is strong, soft and charming and the onslaught of aging is slackened.”
Charaka Samhita,
Volume 1, dated 100 BCE
  • Nourishes & rejuvenates mind and body
  • Enhances complexion
  • Soothes nervous system
  • Enhances circulation and detoxification
  • Promotes sleep, relieves fatigue
  • Increases longevity, decreases aging
  • Builds stamina
  • Releases stress
  • Awakens senses
  • Recovers muscle fatigue
  • Supports digestion, blood pressure and organ communication
  • Teaches self-love and self-care

Oiling Ears

    • Decreases stiffness in neck
    • Release tension in jaw
    • Improves and protects hearing
    • Soothes Vata – Calms nerves
    • Prevents infection due to dryness

Oiling Feet Before Bed

    • Release tension
    • Stimulates detox
    • Aids in deep sleep and rest
    • Soft, supple, skin and nails

How to Oil Massage

    • Image from the book, "Ayurvedic Beauty Care" by Melanie Sachs
      Image from the book, “Ayurvedic Beauty Care” by Melanie Sachs
      http://www.amazon.com/Ayurvedic-Beauty-Care-Ageless-Techniques/dp/091495511X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1392221537&sr=8-1&keywords=ayurvedic+beauty+care

      Warm the Room

    • Fill a squeeze bottle with oil
    • Warm the oil ~ Fill a glass with hot water, drop in your bottle of oil
    • Work the oil in your body ~ Rub with vigor and love over your entire body, long strokes on the limbs, circular strokes on the joints. Use special attention to the parts you’re not best friends with. (Thighs, butt, chest, ears, whatever)… Even oil your anus, it will help you poop, trust me.
    • If time, let oil sink in for 20 – 30 minutes ~ Wear an old robe or t-shirt you don’t mind ruining
    • Rinse or Towel Off
    • Enjoy your luscious skin and nourished body

Types of Oil

    • Organic Untoasted Sesame or Almond ~ for Dry, Light, Spacey Types or Cold Weather
    • Sunflower or Coconut Oil ~ for Hot, Firey, Sensitive Types or Warm Weather
    • Olive, Apricot or Sesame Oil ~ for Solid, Watery, Congested Types – or Dry Brush (massage without oil) – working from limbs toward center

Easy Tips to Begin

abhyanga1011

Start Small

  • Start with rubbing oil on feet before bed, cover with cotton socks
  • Rub oil in ears
  • Put a drop or so on your pinky finger, rub it in and around your ears

Full Body

    • Twice a week rub oil all over your body
    • Can be done before, during or after a shower
    • Work up to every day, or nearly every day
    • At least once a week set aside time to rub oil in before or after shower and give at least 20 minutes to absorb into your skin before rinsing or toweling off excess

* Some literature advises against abyhanga during pregnancy. I have yet to discover why. In my opinion, the thing to do is be gentle. It’s unlikely that you’ll push hard enough on certain points that could trigger labor, but better to be safe. So if you’re pregnant, please check with your care provider and exercise caution when performing abyhanga.  I cannot be held liable for any adverse effects of practicing abhyanga. Also, regular practice of abhyanga with sesame oil in the two to six weeks following birthing is said to be one of the best things a new mother can do to heal and regain her vitality. I’ll let you know how it goes!

On Practice: An Interview with Michelle Corey

In preparation for the upcoming Cultivating Your Personal Yoga Practice Online Retreat which starts Monday, February 3rd, I’ve been thinking about and collecting wisdom from local and international yoga teachers as well as student-practioners on aspects of a personal practice. Since many of you know this snazzy lady, I thought I’d share my interview with the one and only Michelle Corey, E-RYT. If you don’t know her, Michelle’s awesome. You can find her teaching at Cisco, The Cary Family Y and EVOLVE Movement. 

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Michelle rocking Surya Yantrasana (Sun Dial Pose)

How did you begin your personal yoga/asana practice?
I began my yoga practice on a regular basis, during my RYT teacher training.  We were supposed to practice once a day.  I forget the duration requirement, it was 2001, but the time for each practice varied from 15 to 60 minutes.

What obstacles get in the way of your asana practice and how do you navigate them?
Obstacles can be many, from injury, recovery, other family members and on and on…  I navigate them now, by knowing not to worry, that I’m not on my mat as much as I would like. I now know, that my regular asana practice will eventually return.  But that perspective took some time to come to.  🙂

How has your asana practice evolved as a result of traveling/aging/hip replacement?
How my practice has changed is interesting.  As mentioned, during injury or surgery, the asana aspect of my life is not happening, but it’s then that the lessons that are garnered as a result of having an asana practice are put to the test.  The big one that comes to mind at the moment, is to remember to first, be kind to myself, then that tends to trickle out to others.  The age thing is real.  My practice now is not like it was when I began.  I find that I move more slowly, but I really enjoy the slower pace.  I do find that I still combat ego on a regular basis, just comparing my asana skills to others can be humbling.  I could go on for a while here, but I won’t.  😉

How do you balance your asana practice with your other cardio activities?  
My cardio practice is about twice a week, where my asana practice is about 5 times per week.  Balancing the two is not a problem.  I think the body thrives with change and asking it to do different things is good for body and brain.

What keeps you coming back to your mat?
What keeps me coming back to my mat is the spiritual aspect/component of the movement. For me it truly is my church, my meditation in movement.

On a practical level, Yogaglo.com has been a wonderful tool for maintaining a home practice and an easy way to check and play with other styles of hatha yoga.

How does your asana practice help you serve the world?
How my yoga helps me serve the world is pretty simple.  I think it makes me a kinder, gentler person and this world needs more of that.

For more insightful and inspiring perspectives on personal yoga practice join us for the Online Retreat. As a bonus, register in the next 24 hours and take 10% off the registration! 

What I'm Challenging Myself to Do Everyday

It’s only January 16th and already 2014 feels like it has been around for quite some time. My word has embedded itself deep in my psyche and it’s been a pleasure and a challenge to watch it begin to manifest in my daily thoughts and actions. The conversations I’ve had with many of you regarding your words, have also been deeply enriching. I love understanding what is inspiring you toward a deeper expression of your own fullness! If you haven’t yet sent me (or talked to me) about your word please do so. Words received by January 22nd will get you entered into a drawing to win a free spot in the upcoming Cultivating Your Personal Yoga Practice online retreat.

Easy Tips to Start the DayLast night I had the pleasure of leading the first ever Wellness Wednesday talk. Wellness Wednesdays are a series of free talks given at StudioVibe in Cary designed to help support you in bringing all apsects of your Word and wellness to life. If you missed it, read below for a recap of last night’s talk. You can also print and post the Easy Wellness Guide here.

The next talk will be January 29th and we’ll have a lot of fun exlporing the joys of growing your own nutrients through simple, indoor gardening.

Easy Tips to Kickstart Your Wellness in Body, Mind and Spirit

Principles of Wellness

    • Make it Meaningful – Let your word or intention inspire your action, it’s ok if meaningful wellness choices change from day to day.
    • Easy Does It – Keep it simple! Don’t try and too much too fast, that leads to burnout, disappointment and backsliding.
    • Progress Not Perfection – Wellness is an evolution. Be “ok” with where you are today while also making choices that will serve your future health on all levels.
    • Daily Improvement – Each day ask, “What one, small action, action can I take today to promote my wellness?” There’s no need to make it more complicated than that!

Some Rhythms for an Easy Start to a Vibrant Day

Expand Your Horizons – Get in touch with the big picture

    • Wake and rise early, preferably with the sun
    • Look out the window, see the world

Clear, Hydrate and Protect

    • Urinate and defecate upon arising
    • Scrape your tongue, brush your teeth
    • Drink 2 – 3 cups of hot water before any coffee or tea, add lemon for taste or alkalinity if desired – this will help you feel revived, aid in pooping, and cleanse your palate to help you make better food choices throughout your day
    • Appy oil inside your nostrils and ears – olive, seasame, coconut, almond, whatever’s on hand – create a barrier against overstimulation, keep your breath flowing smoothly through your nose

Set the Tone

  • Read something inspiring – poetry, a daily reader, the comics. Avoid the news, email and television or radio until you’ve had a chance to do the above
  • Make a gratitude list – try for 3 – 5 things

Flow with Prana

    • Move, Breathe and/ or meditate for at least 5 minutes – See Below!

Feed Yourself Well

    • Have green energy with breakfast: a green smoothie, greens in your eggs, add sprouts to oatmeal, get creative

Start Small. Pick one thing on this list you can easily incorporate this week. (I suggest the bit about hot water 🙂 Once that feels in place, add in another the following week or the week after. Don’t try and revamp your routine all at once.

As an added bonus, I made you a video of the 5 Minutes to Fantastic movement routine. It’s sure to leave you feeling refreshed, vibrant and more at ease. I’m challening myself to do this one everyday. Join me won’t you?

Yes, the video is eight and a half minutes long, but that’s because I’m talking through it! 🙂 If you only do 5 focused breaths per pose – which I recommend – the sequence takes 5 minutes.